Do You Mind vs. Would You Mind

• Do you mind my smoking?
• Would you mind shutting the door?

After would you mind/do you mind we normally use an -ing form. It is possible for the -ing form to have its own subject.

Compare:

• Would you mind opening the window? (= Will you please open the window?)
• Would you mind my opening the window?(= Can I open the window?)

Note that after would you mind/do you mind we use a pronoun in the possessive case.

An if clause is possible after would you mind/do you mind.

• Would you mind if I opened the window?
• Do you mind if I smoke?

In general questions about what people think of something, we do not normally use would you mind.

• Do you mind the smell of tobacco? (General question)
• Do you mind/would you mind my smoking?
• Do you mind people smoking in your house? (General question)

We can use don’t mind/wouldn’t mind to say that we are not troubled by something.

• I don’t mind your coming late.
• I don’t mind your opening the window.
• I wouldn’t mind if you smoke.